FORGIVENESS IS POSSIBLE

By Michael Chidubem

Forgiveness is one of the most significant demonstrations of God’s grace at work in our lives. It is never easy to let go of the pain caused by betrayal, disappointment, or offence. Yet, as believers, we are called to forgive, not through our own strength, but through the enabling power of God’s grace and the help of the Holy Spirit.

The truth is, forgiveness is not natural; it is spiritual. Our human nature wants justice or revenge, but the Spirit of God within us calls us to mercy and love. The Bible says in Ephesians 4:32 (NIV), “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” This means our standard for forgiveness is not based on how we feel, but on how Christ forgave us... completely, freely, and unconditionally.

When we reflect on the cross, we are reminded that God, in His infinite mercy, forgave us while we were yet sinners (Romans 5:8). He sent His only Son, Jesus Christ, innocent and without sin, to bear our guilt and shame. That same grace that redeemed us empowers us to extend forgiveness to others. We forgive not because they deserve it, but because we have been forgiven much.

Forgiving others sets us free from the bondage of bitterness and resentment. It allows healing to flow and peace to reign in our hearts. Colossians 3:13 (NLT) encourages, “Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.”

When the pain feels too deep, and forgiveness feels impossible, we can pray for the Holy Spirit to strengthen us. He gives us the grace to release hurt, the courage to choose peace, and the wisdom to move forward with love.

Prayer:

Heavenly Father, thank You for Your boundless grace that forgave me even when I didn’t deserve it. Lord, I ask for the grace and strength to forgive those who have hurt me. Heal every wound in my heart and let Your Holy Spirit empower me to walk in love, peace, and freedom. Help me to reflect Your mercy to others, just as You have shown mercy to me. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Key Scriptures:

• Ephesians 4:32

• Colossians 3:13

• Romans 5:8

• Matthew 6:14–15